1) a child must learn how to greet people in the right way, wish them good morning/afternoon /evening or simply the universal Hello/Hi!.
2) He/she must remember to shake hands with grown-ups as well as his peer group.
3) a child must know how to use napkins, forks knives and spoons, leave the table, pass the dishes around and so forth.
eg: not piling food on the plate, not burping loudly , not licking his/her fingers and palm, not talking with the mouth full, not licking the plate, not using the water tumbler with the right hand and so forth.
4) personal hygiene and cleanliness. For instance one must never pick his nose or ears, scratch his/her body parts in full public view.
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Girls and young women should always sit with their knees covered, when wearing short outfits.
6) the youngsters must never sit with their feet dangling, pointing towards their elders. It is a sign of sheer disrespect.
7) not pouncing on snacks and gooey goodies when they are offered to you, helping your hostess to lay the table, carrying dirty plates to the kitchen sink,
8) leaving toilets clean after use, helping people around you to carry their luggage or shopping bags.
9) he/she should behave quietly in public places, and avoid interrupting other people in conversation. He/she should also learn not to play with other people's belongings unless given permission to do so.
10)he has to learn how to empathize, to be able to think through an action before doing it and to judge how the consequences of his action will affect himself and others. Therein lies the basis of a moral person.
5 tips to learn to communicate
Tip #1 – Find an interest
Find something that you are passionate about and read anything and everything that you can get your hands on about this topic … then remember it.
Do an experiment with yourself - assume that you read an article yesterday. Now can you tell me, who wrote it? When was the article written? What material did you gather this information from? How was it written?
Can you remember anything really about the article you read … just yesterday?
So more important than just blindly reading everything, you must begin to appreciate the finer details about this skill.
Tip # 2 - Get Inspired.
You'll be more likely to be able to narrate a tale with confidence when you are acquiring knowledge about something that inspires you.
Tip # 3 - Relax and take a deep breath
This is serious stuff. If you are going to launch into explaining something you absolutely love to an audience, you need to be relaxed yourself. If you hurry through you explanation, your audience will certainly feel it and you will not be able to sustain their interest.
Tip # 4 - Make sure you consume the right things and be hygienic
When you are about to begin relating a tale of some sort, nothing can be off putting to your audience than bad breath.
Also, it is a known fact that sugar and caffeine may give you a brief moment of energy, but they also cause a person anxiety and tension. Most certainly, alcohol is a depressant.
Tip # 5 - Get intimate with your audience
This means that when you are speaking to someone do not look at the ceiling, or the chair, or food display. Establish the contact with your audience and ensure that the attention you are giving is whole hearted. Guaranteed, you will receive the same level of attention in return.